Today was a lazy day, KC played hooky from preschool for no reason really except we were both to lazy to wake up. I did wake up before he did but I didn't do much. We went to lunch with a few friends at Olive Garden and came home. Spent the afternoon eating snacks, playing with play-doh, watching toons, and in between I managed to do some laundry, clean the kitchen, bathroom, and pick up a few other things. To get anything picked up with my little tornado at home is an accomplishment in my book.
My big boy is doing so going in the potty department, he has been wearing big boy pants full time since September but he was only going on his small potty & sitting on the big potty. Now he will go #1 standing up in the big potty or even outside on ants ha! He will even go #2 on the big potty, and whats best is he will do both all by himself. I couldn't have had better luck in potty training him I swear it was either a fluke, or he's just to smart for words. We have now come to the point where I have to go out and close the door. Today at lunch he had to go, so we left the table and went to the restroom. I helped him get up and he promptly told me to go out. Its so funny, but so sad because its just another sign my little man is growing up...and way to fast in my opinion.
Tomorrow is gonna be a fun night with Donna the Buffalo at Skippers, I guess its turning into an annual tradition. Last year when Hubby & I were there it was cold and they were serving warm spiced apple cider with rum and it was tasty on a fridged Florida night. Cant wait cause.....
Theres No Place Like the Right Time - 2009
a fave of mine...The Ones You Love - 2010
Friday, January 7, 2011
Thursday, January 6, 2011
Free...
It was a yucky day today, a bad storm woke us up before daylight and the lightning and thunder was terrible. I woke up having to get dressed and ready like I was going to a new job, except I wasn't...I was going to a funeral. Funny how the weather coincided with the mood of a lot of close friends today. I dropped KC off at school and headed to the church where last night over 600 people passed through to pay their respects to a wonderful guy. Today wasn't as crowded but you could feel the love in those four walls. Duanes eulogy was read by Brooke, his sister and also Jeremy one of his best friends who was there when he passed away. I have known these people my entire life and hearing the words and seeing their pain just made me so sad. Brooke spoke about taking your days for granted always assuming there is going to be tomorrow, she thought she would see her brother again in this life not knowing that wasn't to be. She knows she will see him again one day and her faith tells her that. Jeremy talked about all the first he and Duane experienced together, camping, being there when each other got married, and had there first child. Both Duane and Jeremy's mothers had breast cancer and they helped each other through the rough times. Various hunting and fishing stories and many other stories not suitable for church, but this was a first, the first time Duane wasn't going to be there for a first. Jeremy grew up in church and said he considered himself a Christian man and his whole life has always justified things with God has plan. It shook me to hear him say that as the Christian man he doesn't not in anyway understand God's plan in loosing his friend and it was going to take a lot of convincing to get him to try to understand this all. Why would God take a father away from his precious little girl? he asked. Why? It just breaks my heart that a single accident would make a man question everything he's based his life on for the past 34 years. It breaks my heart that Duane's precious little girl is grow up without him in her life. When we were all standing at the cemetery, with our eyes closed listening to the preachers last prayer....the clouds opened up and a bright beam of sunshine shined down on us all for a just a few seconds. I smiled just thinking maybe that was Duane giving us one last reason to smile.
Even though sad moments like this make time seem to stand still, it is inevitable that time will keep right on trucking. The memories have to be positive ones and you have to smile and remember the good times and make that make you keep going. I know I will see my friend Duane again one day, I will see my Dad, and Johnny and all the special people I have lost in my life again. I know I will and I that gives me comfort knowing that I have a lot of special people looking over me too. Until then I have pictures and good memories to carry me through the days & help me keep going.
Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free
I'm following the path God has chosen for me.
I took His hand when I heard him call;
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day,
To laugh, to love, to work or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way;
I've now found peace at the end of day.
If my parting has left a void,
Then fill it with remembered joys.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss;
Oh yes, these things, I too will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow
Look for the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life's been full, I savored much;
Good friends, good times, a loved ones touch.
Perhaps my time seems all to brief;
Don't lengthen your pain with undue grief.
Lift up your heart and peace to thee,
God wanted me now-He set me free
RIP Duane - You touched many lives & that was very evident over the last few days. You will always be missed, remembered and loved by us all, until we meet again my friend.
Even though sad moments like this make time seem to stand still, it is inevitable that time will keep right on trucking. The memories have to be positive ones and you have to smile and remember the good times and make that make you keep going. I know I will see my friend Duane again one day, I will see my Dad, and Johnny and all the special people I have lost in my life again. I know I will and I that gives me comfort knowing that I have a lot of special people looking over me too. Until then I have pictures and good memories to carry me through the days & help me keep going.
Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free
I'm following the path God has chosen for me.
I took His hand when I heard him call;
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day,
To laugh, to love, to work or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way;
I've now found peace at the end of day.
If my parting has left a void,
Then fill it with remembered joys.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss;
Oh yes, these things, I too will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow
Look for the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life's been full, I savored much;
Good friends, good times, a loved ones touch.
Perhaps my time seems all to brief;
Don't lengthen your pain with undue grief.
Lift up your heart and peace to thee,
God wanted me now-He set me free
RIP Duane - You touched many lives & that was very evident over the last few days. You will always be missed, remembered and loved by us all, until we meet again my friend.
Wednesday, January 5, 2011
1-5-11
Today I got my hair done, I had to remove all the grey before going to my friends visitation/funeral. I knew I would be seeing lots of people from high school some that I haven't seen in a decade or more. I hate doing things like that too, I always have hated extremely large crowds of people - call me anti-social I guess. But as a friend should I sucked it up and went. It also gave me an excuse to buy some new clothes. The services are held at a church and tonight at the visitation that lasted 2 hours there were over 600 people thru the doors, if that doesn't tell you what kind of guy Duane was I don't know what does. It makes me so sad though to think about his young daughter that has lost her Daddy. He was such an awesome guy.
The funeral is tomorrow and its supposed to rain, which is quite fitting for a gloomy funeral.
Off to bed, the sad stuff has made me tired tonight.
From the newspaper:
DUANE L
ROBERTS, 33
Carpenter
Florida - Duane L Roberts, age 33, died January 1, 2011 at a Central Florida Hospital of injuries received in a fall from a moving golf cart.
Duane was born in Florida on in 1977. Duane was a carpenter, loving father, avid outdoors man and a member of a Baptist Church.
Duane is survived by his daughter Bailee, former wife, mother & father, sister, paternal grand-mother Dorothy Roberts and many other extended family members and friends. In lieu of flowers the family has set up a savings account for Duane's daughter Bailee at any Credit Union Visitation will be Wednesday January 5, 2011 from 6:00-8:00 P.M. at a Baptist Church. Funeral services will be Thursday January 6, 2011 at 10:00 A.M. at a Baptist Church. Condolences may be sent to the family. Arrangements entrusted to a Funeral Home-FL.
The funeral is tomorrow and its supposed to rain, which is quite fitting for a gloomy funeral.
Off to bed, the sad stuff has made me tired tonight.
From the newspaper:
DUANE L
ROBERTS, 33
Carpenter
Florida - Duane L Roberts, age 33, died January 1, 2011 at a Central Florida Hospital of injuries received in a fall from a moving golf cart.
Duane was born in Florida on in 1977. Duane was a carpenter, loving father, avid outdoors man and a member of a Baptist Church.
Duane is survived by his daughter Bailee, former wife, mother & father, sister, paternal grand-mother Dorothy Roberts and many other extended family members and friends. In lieu of flowers the family has set up a savings account for Duane's daughter Bailee at any Credit Union Visitation will be Wednesday January 5, 2011 from 6:00-8:00 P.M. at a Baptist Church. Funeral services will be Thursday January 6, 2011 at 10:00 A.M. at a Baptist Church. Condolences may be sent to the family. Arrangements entrusted to a Funeral Home-FL.
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
1-4-11
We went to the mall today to get me some things to wear to Duanes funeral and viewing. KC was being a little terror because he's in transition from the holidays. He is for sure my child on the sleeping part, I have always been a non napping, nocturnal creature & he's the same way. I wonder if he will stay that way?
We scored Donna the Buffalo tickets for Saturday night and the circus is in town so we might take KC to his first trip. Always busy, busy doing something.
Donna The Buffalo - Family Picture
We scored Donna the Buffalo tickets for Saturday night and the circus is in town so we might take KC to his first trip. Always busy, busy doing something.
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Donna The Buffalo - Family Picture
Monday, January 3, 2011
1-3-11
Today was a good day, KC started back to preschool after the holiday break and he was super excited to see his teachers and friends. We came home after lunch and played in the yard and a friend brought her boxer, Bella over to play with our boxers Buster & Rita. While out in the yard we watched a MetLife blimp flying around, and KC thought the airplane was cool! KC has decided he doesnt take naps anymore so its very rare to get a quiet afternoon around here. When he finally crashes out though, he is down for the count!
I went to Wal-Mart this evening to buy a few things and I only took my credit card & $40 cash, no wallet, no bank card. Now any other damn day this would have been fine but since my credit card was my Christmas cushion this year, my Wal-Mart trip didnt turn out so swell. My few things turned into $103 worth of crap in the buggy because any woman knows you cant ever leave that place without spending a Ben Franklin. So Im in the line to check out, swipe my card and a big fat NADA!!! Declined...then tried again with no success... so I pushed the buggy to the side and left. I still needed my few things so I stopped by the grocery store and spent $25. I laughed as I walked out knowing that I wouldnt be coming back to rescue the cart and some poor person would have to put my few things & other unnecessary junk back on the self. Mean for laughing....maybe....maybe not. My lessoned learned is NEVER go to Wal-Mart without a wallet!
I went to Wal-Mart this evening to buy a few things and I only took my credit card & $40 cash, no wallet, no bank card. Now any other damn day this would have been fine but since my credit card was my Christmas cushion this year, my Wal-Mart trip didnt turn out so swell. My few things turned into $103 worth of crap in the buggy because any woman knows you cant ever leave that place without spending a Ben Franklin. So Im in the line to check out, swipe my card and a big fat NADA!!! Declined...then tried again with no success... so I pushed the buggy to the side and left. I still needed my few things so I stopped by the grocery store and spent $25. I laughed as I walked out knowing that I wouldnt be coming back to rescue the cart and some poor person would have to put my few things & other unnecessary junk back on the self. Mean for laughing....maybe....maybe not. My lessoned learned is NEVER go to Wal-Mart without a wallet!
Sunday, January 2, 2011
1-2-11
Today was a boring day around the house. Un-decorated for Christmas and tried to organize things while the hubby & kids rode the carts.
Maybe tomorrow I will have something eventful to say....right now Im tired and I finished off the World's Finest Chocolate choc. covered almonds and my fat butt is going to bed =-)
Maybe tomorrow I will have something eventful to say....right now Im tired and I finished off the World's Finest Chocolate choc. covered almonds and my fat butt is going to bed =-)
Saturday, January 1, 2011
1-1-11
A New Year has begun, and my resolution was to write on my blog atleast once a day even if its something lame. I did not make any other resolutions except this one, no Im gonna loose weight or quit cussing or be Paula Deen; just that once a day Im gonna write something, something to leave my mark saying I was here.
We spent New Years Eve home for the first time in a long time, we shot off a few fireworks and sat and listened to the other neighborhood fireworks and gunshots. KC didnt make it to midnight, but Hubby & I rang in the New Year with a first smooch in our front yard. New Years day consisted of sleeping in, a home cooked brunch of biscuits & gravy, and eggs (KCs favorite), a bowl of black eyed peas from my MIL, and taking down Christmas decorations. I also learned that another good friend passed away not to long after midnight, Duane was a close friend and my best friend in high schools brother. He was 33 and he fell off the back of a golf cart & hit his head. He was a son, brother, fantastic father, and a fabulous friend to lots of people. I just dont understand why the good die young.
I hope this year is a great year for my family and also my friends. I am thankful for my life and all the great people in it.
1-1-11, here we go!!
RIP Duane Roberts - 5/16/77 ~ 1/1/11
We spent New Years Eve home for the first time in a long time, we shot off a few fireworks and sat and listened to the other neighborhood fireworks and gunshots. KC didnt make it to midnight, but Hubby & I rang in the New Year with a first smooch in our front yard. New Years day consisted of sleeping in, a home cooked brunch of biscuits & gravy, and eggs (KCs favorite), a bowl of black eyed peas from my MIL, and taking down Christmas decorations. I also learned that another good friend passed away not to long after midnight, Duane was a close friend and my best friend in high schools brother. He was 33 and he fell off the back of a golf cart & hit his head. He was a son, brother, fantastic father, and a fabulous friend to lots of people. I just dont understand why the good die young.
I hope this year is a great year for my family and also my friends. I am thankful for my life and all the great people in it.
1-1-11, here we go!!
RIP Duane Roberts - 5/16/77 ~ 1/1/11
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